Too Much Stuff Helping Hoarders Clean Up

Too Much Stuff

 In March 1947, a group of nearly 600 onlookers gathered on the sidewalk in front  of the home of bachelor brothers Homer and Langley Collyer on Fifth Avenue and  128th Street in Manhattan. Residents of the neighborhood had speculated and  gossiped for years about the two eccentric shut-ins and their crumbling  brownstone, which was rumored to be crammed floor-to-ceiling with treasures and  curiosities collected by the Collyers over the decades.  

 It was not until an anonymous tip was phoned in to the NYPD claiming that there  was a dead body in the Collyer house that the mystery surrounding the brothers  finally unraveled.  

 Initially, officers responding to the tip were unable to get into the building  because the foyer was entirely blocked by a solid wall of junk, including  mountains of yellowed newspapers, broken furniture, boxes, and tangled debris.  A patrolman eventually broke in through a second-floor window, and after  crawling for over two hours through a dark, cramped, foul-smelling maze of  thousands upon thousands of objects of all descriptions, he found Homer  Collyer's body. There was no sign of Langley.  

 While search parties looked all over the city for Langley Collyer, workers began  clearing the brothers' house of decades' worth of accumulated possessions,  trash, and waste. On April 8, 1947 —nearly two weeks after the discovery of Homer Collyer—the badly decomposed body of Langley Collyer was discovered, mere feet away from  where his older brother had been found. He had apparently been crushed beneath  a landslide of stacked luggage and newspapers.  

 Ultimately, some 130 tons of junk and garbage were removed from the Collyer  house. The vast majority was worthless—the salvageable items netted less than $2,000 at auction—and included things like baby carriages, rusty machinery of all kinds, thousands  of books, kitchen utensils, tools, musical instruments, and of course,  thousands upon thousands of newspapers and magazines.  

 Signs and Symptoms

 Today, we would say that the Collyer brothers were not merely reclusive and  slovenly, but were in fact compulsive hoarders, afflicted with a particular  strain of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and in need of therapy and  professional cleaning and organization assistance to get their home and lives  in order. And they certainly wouldn't be alone; hard numbers are elusive, but  according to statistics collected by the University of California San Diego,  it's likely that there are about 1.2 million people struggling against  obsessive/compulsive hoarding behaviors in the U.S.  

 According to the International Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) Foundation, a  hoarder is someone who obsessively acquires too many possessions and/or has  enormous difficulty discarding or getting rid of them, even if they are no  longer useful or needed. Of course, lots of people battle clutter, and lots of  people collect things—but when this behavior spirals out of control and threatens a person’s health or safety or leads to distress it becomes a disorder.  

 According to the Anxiety and Stress Disorders Institute of Maryland, a resource  for sufferers of OCD, including compulsive shoppers and hoarders, there are a  number of diagnostic criteria indicating that a person may be struggling  against more than just a chronic fetish or an overgrown collection of  tchotchkes.  

 According to the ASDI's website, signs of a hoarding disorder vary from person  to person, but often include the following:  

 Saving items seen by most people as unneeded or worthless, (i.e., not true  collectibles).  

 • Compulsively buying or saving excessive quantities of items of any kind.  

 • Treating all saved items as equally valuable—whether or not the object has sentimental, financial or functional value.  

 • Experiencing intense anxiety or distress when attempting to discard—or even think about discarding—what most others view as useless objects.  

 • Engaging in saving activity to combat anxiety-provoking thoughts such as: "What  if I run out?" "What if I need to know something and don't have the information  available?" "What if I put it away and can't find it?" "What if the way I  organize it isn't the right way?" "What if I throw it away but the day comes  when I really need it?"  

 • Being unable to use furniture, rooms, or entire homes in standard ways due to  saved items.  

 • Significant deterioration in housekeeping due to excessive clutter.  

 Suffering in Silence

 Unless you’re granted access to a person's home, it's often hard to tell if someone in your  building is struggling with hoarding.  

 “You won’t likely know a hoarder from meeting them in the street but it’s their behaviors that represent their disorder,” says Lynne Johnson, a certified professional organizer specializing in the  chronically disorganized (CPO-CD) in Quincy, Massachusetts. “For example, they may not put out as much trash [for collection], or they may be  seen going through others’ trash or discarded junk mail. But you won’t really know they are hoarding unless you see the condition of their living  space.”  

 Other possible indicators are curtains pushed up against windows—typically caused by stacked items in the home—and windows that are closed all year long.  

 “If no one is ever allowed in the apartment, that’s also a really big red flag,” says Christiana Bratiotis, PhD, director of the Hoarding Research Project at  the Boston University School of Social Work. “It’s a recognition that they have some shame or embarrassment or they are fearful  that someone will come in and suggest that they throw away possessions.”  

 Bratiotis also draws distinctions between collectors and true hoarders. “It’s really the interference in carrying on daily activities because of their  stuff,” says Bratiotis. “They can’t shower, eat meals in the kitchen or sleep in their bed because there are too  many objects in those spaces.”  

 Hoarding professionals also make a point of distinguishing between hoarding and  squalor. “Hoarding is often confused with squalor,” says Bratiotis. “Hoarding refers to the volume of possessions, whereas squalor refers to filth or  degradation. You can have hoarding without squalor. Some hoarders even employ  cleaning people.”  

 Television shows such as TLC's Hoarding: Buried Alive may have brought attention  to this serious disorder, but for the sake of 'good television,' they typically  profile extreme hoarding cases that include profound squalor, serious vermin  infestation, or the hoarding of live animals. This may make for riveting TV,  but it's not representative of the typical hoarding situation.  

 Everyone's Problem

 When hoarding does involve abject squalor, the situation becomes critical for  both the resident and for his or her neighbors, says Patrick J. Brady, a  partner at the law firm of Marcus Errico Emmer & Brooks in Braintree, Massachusetts. Brady has seen many hoarding cases,  including an extreme squalor case involving a former school teacher who hoarded  trash. “The sinks and toilet didn’t work, and there was human waste all over the place," he says. "We got the  bathroom functioning, but the smell still lingers—as do the flies.” It's not hard to imagine the impact this resident's situation had on the  neighbors.  

 Johnson says she worked with an elderly food hoarder who had a serious problem  with bugs and mice. “He would buy produce in large quantities that was past its prime," she says.  "Sometimes it made it to the refrigerator and sometimes it didn’t." The food that didn't provided a feast for all manner of unwanted pests—and those pests didn't just stop at the gentleman's unit; they infiltrated the  neighbors' units as well.  

 It's stories like these that highlight why the issue of hoarding is of great  interest to co-op and condo owners and administrators: a hoarding problem doesn’t just affect the hoarder. In an association, where neighbors share walls,  ceilings, and floors, there are also safety, comfort, and quality-of-life  issues that need to be considered as well. Earlier this year in New Brunswick,  New Jersey, a fire left one man dead when firefighters could barely make it  inside his home because it was so cluttered. They said that there was little  chance of saving the resident because the clutter not only prevented the  firefighters from reaching him, but because all the debris acted as fuel for  the fire itself, causing it to burn hotter and more quickly.  

 Legalities and Access

 According to Brady, how you treat a hoarding situation in your building depends  largely on your governing documents. “Typically, the maintenance provisions state if a unit is causing a hazardous  condition, the board can order the unit owner to correct it, or [the board] can  excercise the right to access it and take care of it.”  

 He recommends that property managers contact the city or the fire department or  get a court order. “That way,” he says, "if they have to get someone in to clean it up, the association will  pay for it and then assess the cost back to the owner. However, if the home  goes to foreclosure, there is a good chance that money might not be recovered.” Without a court order, Brady says that managers risk exposing the co-op or  condo to liability if they push to go in.  

 Cleaning it Up

 Helping a hoarder requires a unique approach from management and community  administrators alike. Demanding that he or she simply clean up the mess won’t work.  

 “The property manager has a responsibility to the tenants for health and safety  violations,” says Johnson, "but if the property manager calls an outside service to come in  and just clean the place, it can be so traumatic to the hoarder that their  behavior will escalate and the clean unit will fill up again, faster than it  originally did.”  

 Obviously, most property managers aren’t social workers or therapists, and people who hoard compulsively need  additional help beyond just clean-up. That part can be tricky, however. “You represent the association, but you can’t tell someone they need therapy,” says Johnson. “All you can say is, ‘Here is the deadline to get this cleaned, so you can get into the apartment.’”  

 There are other communication strategies for dealing with hoarders, too. "Use  their language," says Bratiotis. Approach the person and talk about the greater  good of the building.”  

 Experts also suggest spelling out your building administration's expectations  clearly, and in writing. For example, if you need exits and outlets to be  clear, state that explicitly. It's also helpful to break down larger tasks into  smaller ones, says Bratiotis. “It’s unrealistic to think that it will take one week to [clean a unit] when it didn’t take a week to get like that,” she says. “Imminent risks need to be addressed first.”  

 Whether a hoarding resident cleans up on their own, with the help of friends and  family, or under legal pressure from the building itself, the pros warn  administrators to not be surprised if the situation arises again. “It would be very unusual if it didn’t happen again,” says Johnson. “Hoarders have such an emotional attachment that it’s physically painful to let go of those things."  

 Indeed, the pros agree that in hoarding cases that can be remedied,  understanding and support go a lot farther than opprobrium or condemnation.  Identifying the problem, reaching out to the struggling resident, clearly  stating expectations, and helping them take advantage of the available  resources is a more humane, often more effective approach to dealing with the  situation. As Johnson stresses, "If the homeowner is willing to address it and  the property manager is willing to be patient, it can really benefit things in  the long term.”                        

 Lisa Iannucci is a freelance writer and a frequent contributor to The  Cooperator.  

 

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2 Comments

  • I heard this happened one time in my co-op building. The apartment was filled with junk from floor to ceiling. The owner who lived there had disapeared and the building had received a violation for the trash in the balcony.
  • Living with a hoarder who is slovenly is mentally challenging and does indicate enabling behavior on behalf of those who live with one. My experience is that the hoarder I live with is often passive aggressive about continuing slovenly habits and denies that filth fecal matter or rotting food and multiple hoarded items are any indication of abnormal or unhealthy behavior.I have been told by the hoarder that being critical of the behavior is passing judgement on lifestyle choices while trying to coerce her into living the way other people do. Its distressful and depressing to live with someone who chooses to disrepect the needs or health of those they live with.